Yes, fear exists, everything you feel when you are scared about something is real, everything that crosses your mind when you are thinking about a thing is actually true, when you can actually feel the fear in your surroundings, your body starts to shiver and your brain is only thinking about one thing and that’s your fear.
You may not believe this but it is true, your every fear exists, ‘it exists in your mind’. You are the creator of your fears, you build them on your own, for your own and you start to believe them too. Every fear you have is just your imagination for anything, you picture the situation in your mind but that is not true.
You fear about heights and people climb mount Everest, you fear jumping from heights and people are parachute climbers by choice, you fear darkness and people stay up all night to make their dreams come true, you fear to face people and a performer is dying to have some audience.
Your fears are just holding you back, they are putting you back every day because you believe them. Stop believing in your fears and start to believe in you. You are scared to take a step forward and some are about to reach to their destiny. So, get over your fears.
Don’t just sit here and wonder, what would happen? Go get up and find this answer yourself.
I am feminist but I am not a feminist, confused?
This is a world of men, and women are just playing side roles, right? And when women talk about equality and rights then we are feminists, again right? We always hold second position because we are not as capable as men, right?
If you think that’s right then you are wrong, women were always at position two because we were told that, we were placed on that position, we weren’t even allowed to run in the race of life we were given that position by them.
But now we are not the same ones, we have changed we made efforts for that and we are making every day, you men are living in your comfort zone from birth but we are fighting for our birth rights as a human. And this battle has begun.
we are taking your first position in several fields and you are scared because we are doing it better than you. You call us feminists because you are scared that we are going to take your all positions because women are not less than men.
In one way or another we all are fighting for our rights, somewhere in our family, in our society, in our office or in our heart. But we all are fighting for some rights and equality in our own ways. We all are feminist at some point but we just don’t want to accept it.
Yes, I get so happy when I see a woman growing in any field, I feel proud of that lady and for the hard work and struggle she did behind that success. I feel good about being a woman and if that’s what feminism is then hell yeah, I am feminist.
Everything has two sides in universe, one is good, one is bad. A person is friends with someone and enemy of someone else, a thing might have good effect on you but might harm somebody, even the laws made for our benefits are misused by some people, all the objects of this universe has two sides just like a coin. We should always accept that everything good comes with some bad too. We should always be prepared for that too, there is nothing in this universe that is all good or all bad. Even if we breathe we are taking the oxygen and giving carbon dioxide to the environment. It is similar as we are sitting in an a/c car, it’s cool inside but leaving double as heat outside. We can’t change it but can only accept it, “there is an evil in every god and god in every evil”.